How to make a man feel like a man.

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I know I have mentioned some the flaw of women to romanticize men and their relationships with them. Fictionalizing things in our heads is, in my opinion, or number one curse. We search for this “true love” our “soul mate” and we will not settle for less, so when we find a man who mostly fits, we just make up the rest in our heads until they are complete. It’s a horrible habit. Here is another thing that we do that is detrimental to our own happiness.


Women want (well we never really know…but I’ll discuss that at a later date) a man who will support her, love her unconditionally, be her best friend and her equal in all things. Here it is ladies…it’s probably not going to happen! Men just don’t think the way we do…and unless as a gender we decide to band together and starting with this new generation, breed young boys to think like women so that sometime in the future they can be the “perfect man” for some lucky lady…it’s just not going to happen! The sooner we, not only realize this, but accept it, the better!

As women we need to be smart enough to seek our support and understanding from them, but also from our close girlfriends. Women who think their man should be the one to tell secrets to, talk about every small detail of their day to, complain about co-workers, tell them that their age/weight/hair/clothes are perfect, that it’s okay to be annoyed with their nagging mother/mother-in-law, are insane! Do NOT get me wrong, your man should be somebody that you can trust, that you can go to with things, that you can talk to, but he is not your girlfriend.

Men do NOT think the way we do. When you come home and say I had a bad day at work, so and so isn’t treating me right, they want to charge in there and confront them because that’s how they’d solve the problem if it was them. Well…you aren’t them. You just want them to listen to you and say, “Honey, I’m sorry. That must be so hard for you.” Newsflash…not gonna happen ladies. That’s what your girlfriend is for.

You tell a man a problem and they want to fix it. If you tell them a problem they can’t fix, or that you don’t want them to fix, they’re just going to be frustrated. More than that they will also feel like less of a man for not being able to help you the way they’d like to.

This brings me to another issue that, for whatever reason, women keep forgetting. The number 1 rule is to make your man feel like a MAN! This has nothing to do with women’s rights or gender equality…if you think it does you are stupid. Sorry, but you are.

I consider myself to be an independent woman. I fend for myself for the most part. I rely on myself to pay bills, make big purchases, to do home repairs, and most importantly, for my own happiness. I do not “need” a man but I sure as shit want one. I love them! They make you feel pretty, desired and cherished. They smell good either straight out of the shower or after a day of yard work. When I’m upset nothing makes me feel quite as good as being held tight against their chest. Nothing will ever make my heart race quite like a man who wants me. And, nothing will ever make me melt like a man who places his hand on the small of your back, EVER. This can take place when leading me into a room or standing in a group talking to others while stroking you lightly there. There is something about that act that is both gentlemanly and sexy; that makes me feel safe and treasured. For those and many other reasons a man in your life (the right man) can be so nice. Like I said, I’m okay alone but there is a certain joy that comes with sharing your day with somebody special.

I don’t need all the bells and whistles of chair and door holding, although it is nice, but I will tell you, when a man subconsciously walks on the outside of the sidewalk (closest to the street), because that’s what a gentleman does…well that’s just cute. For me, it’s those little acts, acts that most people may not even notice, that slay me. Loving these things does not make me any less a strong woman. And, stroking a mans ego by asking for help with something I could manage on my own isn’t weak. Let him hang that picture or check your tires air pressure. Make sure he knows that his strength, his “protector” capabilities are needed and appreciated, because that’s the way he shows you he loves you, and that’s how you can show him you love him in a way he’ll understand. It’s important he feels invaluable to me, because he is, in so many way’s he’ll never understand or appreciate.

I love to give my man backrubs. I love to give my man space (Hey, I need my own too!). I love to do things he loves to do, like watch a sports game, go shooting, go fishing; mostly because I love these things are well. It's important for him to know you desire him. Send him a sexual text randomly in the middle of the day so he knows you can't wait until he gets home to you. Kiss him unexpectantly. Initiate love making. Praise, sex, and beer...it's simple ladies! I love to make him happy…because let’s face it…if he is happy…so are we.

I think if more women remembered this and got off their high horse they’d be a whole lot happier. Relationships would be more stable and men would feel fulfilled and less likely to cheat…but that’s just my highly un-expert or research based opinion.

Strong women are sexy; don’t give that up; just know how to make him feel like your world. Men are, in my opinion, just larger sized boys who still want and seek approval from the women in their life. A “Baby, what would I do without you.” lets them know how much we love them. No harm done to us ladies.
Début de l'événement 20.03.2024
Fin de l'événement 20.03.2024